Kids are full of surprises, and when it comes to family photos, they don’t always follow the plan. But don’t worry—I’m here to make it a fun, relaxed experience that captures their true personalities and creates photos you’ll love.

Choosing to have family photos taken is a big decision for many moms. From coordinating outfits to picking the perfect location, the planning can feel like a lot!

And for many parents, there’s one question that lingers: “What if my kids don’t cooperate?”

This is such a common concern, and let me assure you—it’s okay! Kids are wonderfully unpredictable, and that’s what makes them so uniquely themselves.

As a family photographer with years of experience (and plenty of patience!), I’m here to help your little ones feel comfortable, bring out their natural personalities, and make our time together a relaxed and enjoyable experience for the whole family.

In this blog, I’ll share how I handle wiggly toddlers, shy preschoolers, and even strong-willed teens to capture real moments that you’ll treasure for a lifetime.

Let’s dive into why you can feel confident that, together, we’ll capture beautiful, authentic memories—no matter how cooperative (or uncooperative!) your kids might feel on picture day.

Trust My Experience—I’ve Got This!

As a family photographer and a former teacher, I’ve spent years working with kids of all ages. I understand the quirks, the moods, and the boundless energy that comes with little ones.

Every child has a different way of interacting with the world, and part of my job is to meet them where they are.

When you choose me, you’re choosing someone who’s ready for any and every curveball kids throw our way.

I’ll bring all the patience and expertise needed, making sure that no matter how your kids are feeling that day, we’ll get shots that truly reflect who they are.

Creating a Comfortable Atmosphere For Your Kids

Kids are quick to pick up on energy. If they sense tension, they’re more likely to be shy, uncooperative, or even a bit grumpy.

That’s why I prioritize creating a comfortable and relaxed atmosphere. When they see mom and dad relaxed and enjoying themselves, they naturally feel at ease too.

Before we start shooting, I like to spend a few minutes getting to know them. I’ll ask about their favorite things, make silly faces, and maybe even get them involved in setting up a shot or holding some “cool” equipment.

These little moments help break the ice and let them know that this isn’t about posing perfectly—it’s about having fun together.

Encouraging Natural Play and Movement With Your Kids

Some of the best photos come from unplanned moments. I encourage kids to explore, run around, and play while I’m snapping away.

These natural movements often create the most beautiful, authentic images because they show the genuine joy and spirit of your children.

If your little one is in a high-energy mood, we can work with that! Instead of asking them to sit still, I might suggest we play a game of tag, or have them jump into dad’s arms.

Through play, I can capture those wonderful, candid moments that showcase who your child truly is.

Embracing Those Silly, Unscripted Moments With Your Kids

Kids have a special gift for making funny faces, getting giggly, and bursting into dance at the most random times.

And let me tell you, I love it.

Those silly, unscripted moments are what make these sessions memorable.

Instead of trying to pose or control every moment, I embrace the goofiness. Maybe your child has a funny expression they love to make, or perhaps they have a favorite “silly walk” they like to show off.

These moments are not interruptions—they’re opportunities to capture your child’s unique personality.

Guided Posing, Not Stiff Posing

If you’re worried about your kids being able to “follow instructions,” don’t be! I avoid stiff or overly posed shots. Instead, I guide your family through natural movements and interactions.

For example, I might suggest you hold your child close or whisper something funny in their ear. These prompts create natural reactions and help us avoid those awkward “cheese” faces!

I’ll give gentle direction, but I’ll also watch for those spontaneous smiles, curious glances, and little gestures that make your family unique.

Handling Different Personalities and Energy Levels

Every child is different, and I’m ready to meet each one with patience and care.

• The Shy One: If your child is a bit reserved, I’ll take a slower approach, giving them time to warm up. Sometimes, it helps if they see mom or dad goofing around first—they’re likely to join in once they see everyone having fun!

• The High-Energy One: For kids with boundless energy, I might suggest some action shots first. Running, jumping, and twirling can be a great way to channel their energy and get those amazing, joyful shots.

• The Strong-Willed One: Kids with strong opinions about what they want are fantastic! I love involving them in the process, asking if they have a fun idea, or letting them take a turn posing mom or dad. When they feel in control, they’re more likely to engage.

Celebrating the Moments Exactly as They Are

One of the most important things I want you to know is that it’s okay if your kids aren’t perfectly still or smiling in every shot.

Real life is beautifully imperfect, and those in-between moments are often the ones you’ll cherish most.

Maybe your toddler insists on holding onto their snack, or your preschooler wants to wear their superhero cape.

Rather than seeing these as distractions, I see them as reflections of your family’s unique story.

These details make your photos genuine, capturing a specific time in your family’s life that’s perfectly yours.

Reassurance for Parents: I’ve Got All the Patience in the World

I know family sessions can be nerve-wracking for parents, especially when you’ve planned so much to make it a special experience.

My goal is to take that weight off your shoulders so that you can relax and enjoy the session, too.

Rest assured, I don’t mind if we need to pause and let your little one catch their breath, if there’s a quick snack break, or if we need a minute to regroup.

I’m here to create a stress-free, enjoyable environment where your family can be themselves.

The more relaxed you are, the more relaxed your kids will be—and that makes for truly beautiful photos.

Why Your Kids’ True Personalities Make the Best Photos

As a family photographer, I believe the magic of a session lies in capturing your family as it truly is.

Children are wonderfully unique and beautifully unscripted, and each session is a chance to let their personalities shine.

When you choose me, you’re choosing someone who has the experience, patience, and creativity to bring out those authentic smiles, giggles, and glances that make your family special.

So, if you’re worried about your kids “cooperating,” remember—it’s not about perfection.

It’s about capturing the little moments that tell your family’s story.

I’ve got you, and I’m here to make the experience as joyful and stress-free as possible.

Let’s make some memories that will last a lifetime.

And if you want to know more ways I work to make your family session stress-free, check out this blog where I explain my Fashion Consultations.